It was in the 80's when I attended my first baby shower. I was working at an elementary school. My wife was pregnant with our first soon-to-be-born bouncing baby boy. The teachers at the school called me into the room asking and then, Surprise! I was stunned, overwhelmed, and greatly appreciative of this unexpected and touching expression of love.
Brenda and I have attended scores of baby showers and she has planned many of them. So I asked her what planning elements go into a successful and memorable event. Here are a few do's and don'ts:
BABY SHOWER PLANNING DO'S AND DON'TS
| Do's Draw up a guest list. Determine the gender of the baby if the parents know. Mention gift registry on invitation. Play games in good taste. Invite grandad, dad and guy pals. | Don'ts Don't make up a guest list on your own. Consult with the guest of honor or very close friend/family member. Don't insist on know baby's gender if the parent prefers not to. Don't propose a gift registry without approval from the guest of honor. Don't overlook the men in the family. |
